Open relationships

[Narrator]

What is your opinion on open/non-monogamous relationships?

[RainbowNerdette]

I do believe in them if there is complete honesty and openness from all sides, but they are not for me, not at this point anyway...

With the one exception of once in a lifetime chances, me and my GF agreed that if any of the Spice Girls wants me, I´m allowed to :-P #NotGonnaHappen

[Narrator]

^ ahahah! that's a good exception

What if the deal was you could bring in other people for sex with the both of you, but not pursue anyone independently? I know a couple who do this (threesomes and foursomes - sex only) and they appear to be happy with the arrangement!

[RainbowNerdette]

I know right! Craziest thing is that we've ACTUALLY discussed that #IAmInsane

As for the three/foursomes that'd be one of the many possible constructions, even though I wouldn't classify that as an open relationship really. I'd just list that under "spicing things up in the bedroom" LoL.

But I might be too Dutch. For me ANYTHING goes as long as all involved parties are consenting adults.
Which, to be clear, would rule out unprotected insestual sex, as that would potentially bring another party into the equation who isn't a consenting adult by far.

[Snapple Spice]

I don't like the idea for me personally. I've been involved with someone who was in an open-long distance relationship. Her gf knew about me, and I knew about her gf, and her gf was also seeing someone else...it was an emotional roller coaster. Even though everyone was honest, in the end, a lot of feelings were hurt.

[FiaSpice]

Not for me. I want a man who only have me in his life, no other girlfriend/mistress. As for a threesome, it's out of ques question. I've considered it in the past hoping my boyfriend would still stay with me, but it's not someting I want. That also means I'm closed to the idea of couple exchange.

Tha beeing said, If couples wants to live that way, that's their choice.

[ScientificMedium]

I'm open to it though in the case of 3somes, 4somes, etc, I want to be the only guy. Don't want to be crossing swords incase one of the girls is a smartass

[Vitalina]

I don't think it will work for me at all, I am too possessive. And the idea of 3-4-some was never of an interest to me :/

[Avadore]

No thanks. When I'm with someone, I don't want to share them & I don't have any interest in other people.

[Madrigal]

No thanks. When I'm with someone, I don't want to share them & I don't have any interest in other people.

Word.

[fafafab]

I think we had this topic already

[Jeremai]

^^ We did, and if I recall correctly, we disagreed, haha.

An open relationship works for me and my boyfriend. The problems we have as a couple are not usually the product of our relationship type. From

It works for some people, and it doesn't for others. My opinion is that it is a totally legitimate arrangement if both parties understand, consent, and are happy with it. Do you honestly expect you would only have one sexual partner for the rest of your life? People cheat, and break-up over sexual frustration all the time. My point of view, is that it is the least of three evils.

[Margaret]

If it's your intention to stay faithful and you work very hard to keep that than I think you can yeah. But if that's your point of view, than it's probably much easier to cheat, because you can justify it for yourself.

[Adam]

I don't share.

[redgirlrobyn]

I would be WAY too jealous to have an open relationship. If I'm dating someone I don't want anyone else dating them at the same time.

[Vitalina]

Yes, I believe people stay faithful to each for all their lives. Yes, there are those who cheat and break up, but there are many who do not

[[Onur]]

Jesus told us to share but it's not for me. I dont wanna be murderer, i cant share my bf with someone.

[Rebellion]

No thanks. When I'm with someone, I don't want to share them & I don't have any interest in other people.

[Arckangel]

I'm okay with them.

[Lah]

I would be WAY too jealous to have an open relationship. If I'm dating someone I don't want anyone else dating them at the same time.

Same with me. I dont share.

[Thom]

I don't share.

me three.

[rideit]

I'm pretty much open about this idea ... Life's too short

[JPY]

it happens to long term relationships. maybe some of them dont formally make it an official status, but it happens once your partner becomes your bestfriend/companion and less of a "lover"

[Toefje]

I'm pretty much open about this idea ... Life's too short

Life is too short to focus on soulless sex.

[rideit]

I'm pretty much open about this idea ... Life's too short

Life is too short to focus on soulless sex.

that's not what I've said ...
I'm not focus on that idea, thank God !